Well few days
so many hot topics came out i guess
Well in my facebook feed still circulate about second wife,traitors, and play third stick kalau dibahasakan jadi main kayu tiga .
Well, apa kita nak buat kalau kita salah satu victims dalam ketiga-tiga situasi
Husband : Happy tak terkira sebab nak berbinikan bini baru,hati berbunga-bunga macam baru bercinta time zaman muda-muda dulu.Apa yang dirasa indah belaka,bini tak mau layan ,tak mau masak pun xpa sbb da ada sparepart baru, for him u tak suka its so k, i had another one , and for him whether you like it or not you have to accept that because i want it. Understood?
Wife : Divorce or stay?If i divorce, its so k, i move on and start a new life with new status but then ,how about my children?Macam mana that small child gonna understand disaster that created by their own parents.How come they gonna live separately without one of their own biological parents. Kasih sayang ibu dan abah comes together, it is a natural chemical bonding that can heal and it doesnt work separately and for sure something missing and leave a hole by hole in the children heart in the rest of their life. Negative and negative keep growing.
If i stay? bole ka i nak hadapi semua ni, im not that kind yang suka share, i love u one and only and i want you to love me like that too.All these day, i have been with you for years, how come i can live and share with other girls and share your love. I cemburu kuat, how come i can face all these. I hate tak jujur, how come nanti u bole jujur dgn i all the times, u become a big liar in future.
Scandal/ Third stick : What am i doing? i am ruining someone else's marriage. They had children.BUt then theres nothing that i can do, i love him so much and the best thing is he loves me too.I cant let this chance fly away justlike that, i have been waiting for so long. I think im ok to be second wife but i dont like sharing love too but i want to be with him. Should i wait for him to divorce her wife?Or just redha and leave them?What i should i do. I donno.I wanna ran away but somehow i cant. I donno what to do . Im dilemma.
So many dramas.
If you a husband, please think twice, think about your wife who sacrifices her life bertarung nyawa mengandung and melahirkan anak kamu.Bukan mudah bukan senang nak lalui semua tu melainkan semangat sayangkan suami,sayangkan tanda kasih dan sayang selama hidup bersama.Think about your children.
If you a wife, please be strong and keep strong and pray.Its so hard to make him realize how important your family is,but then be patient and keep praying.Think about your children
If you a scandal/third stick, kalau bole elakkan suami orang.Find other options,duda ka,bujnng terlajak pn xpa.sampai bila nak bermadu kasih dengan suami orang.Kasih sayang dia untuk isteri dan anak-anak.Sanggupkah kamu mendirikan masjid dan kebahagiaan bersama dia atas kesedihan, keremukan hati, dan kelukaan perasaan seorang wanita lain.Ia umpama kamu meretakkan masjid orang lain, sedangkan bakal masjid kamu tersergam indah.Bukan begitu caranya.Sedarkah kamu dia ada anak-anak yang sedang membesar.Tahukah kamu betapa sedihnya anak-anak yang ibu dan bapanya berpisah disebabkan perempuan lain?Mampukah mereka menerima perempuan yang telah membuat ibu mereka bersedih dan menangis?Samakah kasih sayang kamu dengan ibu mereka.Mampukah kamu sayangi mereka sejujurnya tanpa bermuka-muka dihadapan dia?Think about their chilren.
Sincerely opinion by me
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